Uh Oh....

Note to self: Don't tell someone something they don't want to hear even when they really need to hear it.

I said something to someone tonight on the phone that I really felt needed said and that person did not appreciate and got off the phone right then.  While I am sorry they feel that way and that I hope it did not cost me the friendship, I still feel it needed to be said and hopefully they will at least think about it.  And I am willing to bet that this person's friends feel the same way I do but just don't want to say anything.

Are we all perfect? Of course not. Do we all complain about things and aren't able or don't want to change them? Of course. But when it is the same thing for 7 years, then yes, something needs to be said. I don't understand after that amount of time it is something you can't get over, and if you can't, it is because you really just don't want to. I don't want this to come across meanly, but as a friend I just felt like it is enough.

I guess we'll see.  I am sorry I hurt feelings, but I'm not sorry I said it.